Happy Chaos Norms

• Every child has a caregiver/support person present; no one is singled out for needing 1:1 support or breaks.

• Families are welcome to leave events or take a break at any time, for any reason, no questions asked.

• Every child has access to their regulation tools at all times.

• Everyone is allowed to share about their passions; we love info-dumping!

• We don’t coach eye contact or other forms of “masking” (suppressing autistic traits).

• Stimming is allowed and encouraged!

• Self-advocacy and constructive feedback are celebrated.

• Autonomy and interdependence are equally valued.

• Sensory needs are supported with thoughtful accommodations and choices.

• Communication is visual and concrete whenever possible.